I wanted to share this with you this morning. A lot of times
before the kids wake up (I'm not trying to say my kids are sleeping in by any
means, I'm just a naturally early riser), I'll spend the quiet time just looking
around on social media. It's my ME time. I sip my coffee and follow my clicking
fingers down rabbit holes that often take me to some pretty interesting places.
Today I did my morning story watch on Snapchat. Lately, this
is how I begin my "me time" routine. (At least, ever since I've
started getting the hang of this crazy Snapchat thing I swore I'd always avoid.
Totally eating my words.) I've been particularly loving watching Hillary
Rushford's snaps from the Italian Riviera as it is giving me the perfect
opportunity to practice my Zen as I try not to feel complete and utter jealousy
and focus on the beauty that she is sharing while living vicariously through
her Sabbatical.
One of her snaps this morning mentioned hopping over to
Instagram to leave a comment on a post (great social media engagement tip,
BTW). Dutifully, I went right over and starting scrolling through her IG feed.
I went from posts showcasing beautiful scenes of the Italian Riviera down to a
photo of an open page of a book that caught my eye. Clicked to learn more about
said book. Clicked the book's hashtag. Found some more photos of this book,
then my eye landed on a photo of three books (the original book in question
plus two more) laid out on a furry rug. I clicked this photo to learn more
about the new books. One was written by Elizabeth Gilbert of "Eat, Pray,
Love" fame (hello, crazy Sabbatical coincidence!) and the poster had
tagged her. So I clicked through to her account. That's where I found this:
And this was the fruit of today's random clicking because it inspired me. This little graphic inspired this entire blog post. And here's the craziest thing you should know about me: I can tie PRACTICALLY ANYTHING back to cloth diapers, including an inspirational Elizabeth Gilbert quote. #talent
In the case of this quote, it struck me as the perfect
mantra for anyone using cloth. You know how you'll get friends asking about
your diapers on play dates? Or you'll post a photo of your baby in fluff on
social media and a random Internet person will see it and ask what the diapers
are all about? Well, this is your opportunity to be an influencer. Whether
you're Instafamous, a blogger, or just a mom sharing a cute photo of her baby
in cloth, how you respond matters. Whatever you say WILL be contagious. You may
not realize it, but your response will be heard or read by many more people
above and beyond the person who originally asked the question, so keep that in
mind as you reply. Your play date friend may strike up a convo with another mom
about it down the road. And on social media, if your account is public, many
more people will read the conversation on your post than you realize. If you
stay POSITIVE, it WILL be contagious!
Let's play pretend for a minute. Imagine you just posted a
picture of your darling in the latest print you've obtained and someone
comments with, "Wow, that diaper is adorable! I wish I could do cloth but
it just seems like so much work. My friend tried it and she said she was
CONSTANTLY doing laundry." :::Insert fed up non-smiling emoji here::: It
looks like someone who didn't read this blog post has already been spreading
their influence. But fear not! Positivity is much more powerful!
Now let me give you two sample replies, and you choose which
you'd rather see be contagious. Because they both will be, no question.
Response option #1: Yeah, the diapers are super cute, but
the laundry can be tiring if you let it get out of hand. It's worth it, though!
Response option #2: Yeah, aren't they cute?! I was actually
nervous about the time commitment when we started with cloth, but it's been a
lot easier than I expected! Just a few extra loads of laundry a week. If you
ever want to give it a shot, just let me know! I'm happy to help.
Both responses are honest, right? But just that slight lean
to the negative side can be very off-putting. Response #2 is only worded a
little bit differently than #1, but it makes all the difference in motivating
and encouraging someone who may be on the fence.
And while I am applying this quote and this concept of
influence to cloth diapers, it's honestly something that applies to all areas
of life. "We all have more influence than we realize" so let's choose
our words accordingly.